If you think that the Heat would take Bosh over Rodman then we should probably just stop arguing about this because we just disagree. All I will say is that Bosh will never be a hall of famer or even have hall of fame consideration.
To the second point, I don't see why the Howard thing is bad for the NBA at all. I don't know where this idea came from that you should ride it out with a team that was, by your own admission, run by a moron. That would just be stupid on his part. Now, I do agree that they should change the salary cap rules to give elite players a larger slice of the pie, and that this would stop some of the big-market super team situations, but this isn't anything new. Championship teams have always had multiple great players.
The real problem isn't that these guys are joining forces, it's that they're only willing to join forces in big markets.