You should read my analysis about why the fatality rates are being overstated, and the doomsday models were basically wrong. That being said, I understand not wanting to take any chances with a novel virus that we didn't know much about. But as more real data has come in, not arbitrary models or projections, Covid-19 is not as lethal as originally thought and may end up having numbers similar to the flu after an extrapolated analysis of antibody tests are done.
The point of social distancing, shelter in place was to flatten the curve, to slow down the spread, as a spike in cases could overwhelm hospitals that might not have enough beds, vents, etc. Hospitals are not overcapacity right now. Some are practically vacant due to delayed elective procedures. But some seem to think the plan is to stay at home until a vaccine emerges or something. That's not in the cards, that will take far too long. Possibly 12 to 18 months. The idea of an open ended, indefinite nearly nationwide shelter in place is completely untenable.